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6 Tips For Staying Motivated To Workout

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Let’s face it: dragging yourself out of bed at 6:00 in the morning and getting to the gym isn’t always fun. Staying motivated to workout can be hard for everyone. This is particularly true as the days get colder and the holiday season gets into full swing. You’re probably busy, cold, and tired.

If you’re feeling a lack of workout motivation, that’s okay. It happens to the best of us. However, consistency is key to seeing workout results. There are many things you can do, big and small, to rekindle that fire of motivation and set you back on track to meeting your fitness goals. 

Here are our 6 favorite tips for staying motivated to workout, even when it’s the very last thing you feel like doing.

1. A strong support network (and some friendly competition)

When you work out alone, it can be hard to motivate yourself and easy to skip a day. However, if you’ve got some friends on a similar fitness journey, you can hold each other accountable. Maybe it’s people from your CrossFit box, or your basketball team, or a running buddy.

If you have friends into fitness, embrace competition to help push you to your highest potential. Studies have shown competition to be the best source of workout motivation.

You can try making a group chat to send each other motivating things, challenge each other, and make plans to work out. Having someone who expects you to show up and workout with them is a big boost of motivation. 

2. Embrace group fitness

Many people find group fitness, such as CrossFit, an effective way to stay motivated. When the movements are all planned for you, all you really need to do is show up. It requires much less planning than other types of fitness. 

Group fitness has an energy far more “electric” than the vibe of a regular gym session. The buzz of other people putting in their all is a great way to keep going in moments you’re struggling.

Plus, when you get to know the other participants and instructor, you’ll start looking forward to the class. When you form some friendships with these people, it helps with the accountability which can be super helpful for staying motivated to workout.

3. Set some goals – and reward yourself when you meet them

Write down a range of goals, big and small. Make sure these goals are concrete, realistic and achievable. A good small goal could be to work out at least 4 times a week for a month. A long term goal might be to run your first marathon by the end of the year.

When you complete your goals, make sure to reward yourself. Otherwise, you’ll stop caring about them and taking them seriously. A reward can be anything you like. For instance, you could celebrate by going to a restaurant, buying new workout gear or watching the last episode of your favorite show. 

4. Put on your workout clothes anyway

This tip is so simple, but more effective than you’d think. When you can’t be bothered, just go and put on your workout clothes. Simply being in the gear is often enough to put you in the fitness mindset and push you to actually go workout.

Plus, it would feel a bit silly to get changed back out of the workout clothes if you hadn’t even worked out in them. No harm in a quick 20 minute workout, just to make it feel worth it, right?

5. Write down how you feel after your workouts

The post-workout endorphins, sometimes called a runner’s high, is an amazing feeling. For many people, it can be addictive. Still, sometimes it can be hard to recall just how good that feels. 

Next time you’re riding that high after a workout, make a note in your phone about how you feel. Then, when you’re struggling to gather the energy to workout, read your testament for how good the workout will make you feel. Hopefully, your past self will be able to convince your present self that the workout is totally worth it.

6. Make working out a rule, not an option

Create a routine where working out fits in. Make it so that there’s nothing else on at that time that you could argue is a better use of your time. Then the hard part – stick to the schedule until it becomes a habit. 

When you started brushing your teeth as a kid, you probably didn’t always want to do it. You might not have always felt highly motivated to go do it. But you did it anyway, because it was a rule. And now it’s a habit.

This is probably the main thing you can do for staying motivated to workout. When working out becomes a habit, motivation doesn’t matter so much anymore. It’s just a part of your lifestyle.

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Overcoming Feelings Of Failure

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When it comes to fitness, feelings of failure can be one of the biggest barriers to progress. Confidence and fitness go hand in hand. When you work out, you feel more confident. When you feel confident, your workouts are better. But if you lose your confidence, for whatever reason, it can be hard to get it back. Overcoming feelings of failure about your fitness is challenging, but can be done.

Why are you feeling failure?

An important step to overcoming feelings of failure is to identify where these thoughts come from. For many people, they might feel like a failure because of insecurity around their level of fitness. Or maybe, you feel bad that you struggle to find time to get to the gym when it seems like everyone else is always working out. Negative feelings can be triggered by almost anything.

Even total fitness junkies sometimes feel like failures too, though. If you’re a gym rat and you’re there 6 days a week, you might find yourself getting frustrated when you hit a plateau. You could be feeling down and wondering why it just doesn’t seem like you’re progressing when everyone else is smashing new records every week.

No matter whether you’re a total beginner or a fitness nerd, there’s a common driving force behind feelings of failure: comparisons. In the hyper-connected world we live in, full of social media and fitness influencers, we’re constantly comparing ourselves to others. 

If you’re struggling with an aspect of your fitness journey, the last thing you want to see is videos and pictures of others showing off their ripped abs or boasting about their latest fitness achievements.

Overcoming feelings of failure 

First of all, stop comparing yourself to others. This might mean unfollowing fitness influencers, or putting a little distance between yourself and your most competitive friends. It can be hard, but remember that your fitness has little or nothing to do with anyone else’s.

Focus on your own why. Take some time to think about why you’re doing this. Hopefully, you have some internal fitness goals as well as external. Physical goals are great, but mental and emotional goals will keep you driven for longer.

Then, try to put your feelings of failure into perspective. Your insecurity is likely triggered by what’s only a minor setback on a long journey. Comparing yourself to others and feeling like a failure won’t make any difference to achieving the goal in the end. Your journey towards your goals is an individual venture, and the pace doesn’t matter – just enjoy the journey.

Using negative feelings to drive success 

Okay, so you feel better. You know it’s just a little setback, and you can keep moving forward. But before you totally forget about these feelings of failure, think about if they can be of value. Failure, and feelings of failure, can hold important lessons.

Experience is the best teacher. So, if you’re feeling like a failure because your deadlift isn’t improving, think about why. Maybe it’s because you aren’t eating enough, so you aren’t building enough muscle. 

Use these feelings of failure to motivate you to work more calories and protein into your diet. Any time your motivation drops in the future, remember the feelings of failure you feel now. Use the memory to drive you towards success.

Remember that on any venture, whether related to business, fitness, or anything else, failure is an inherent part of it. You’ll always experience setbacks of some description. The setbacks don’t matter. What matters is how you deal with them.

Don’t forget that fitness is meant to make you feel good

At the end of the day, a fit and healthy lifestyle is meant to make you feel good. If you’re experiencing chronic feelings of failure, you should re-evaluate your routine. Maybe you need to be less hard on yourself. Maybe you need to turn to your family and friends for support, or take a break from the gym. 

The longer you let your negative thoughts run wild, the harder overcoming feelings of failure becomes. Be kind to others, and yourself.

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Finding Your CrossFit Tribe

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It has been said that you are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time around. During the pandemic, Buffalo Nickel CrossFit has honestly been incredibly blessed compared to other fitness centers locally, and especially nationally. Gyms were forced to shut down all over the country. Peloton stock was skyrocketing. Rogue, Vulcan, Repfitness were sold out of all and any fitness equipment. People were selling their first-borns in exchange for bikes and kayaks. And while we aren’t through the woods just yet, we know that people miss their CrossFit tribe.

Seth Godin says: One of the most powerful of our survival mechanisms is to be part of a tribe, to contribute to (and take from) a group of like-minded people. We are drawn to leaders and to their ideas, and we can’t resist the rush of belonging and the thrill of the new.

With the pandemic continuing on, people are looking for “their” people. The book clubs, the religious gatherings, the gym family. People miss seeing their friends smile without a mask. They miss being able to high five, shake hands and embrace their tribe, CrossFit tribe or otherwise. In essence, they miss the personal experience Zoom can’t replicate.

There is a difference when you are there in person. The buzz of energy, the sounds of controlled chaos, your tribe pushing you when you didn’t think you could run faster. It feels different: more unique and appreciated when in person. This is something a computer screen will never be able to replicate.

We all know this isn’t over yet, and the world outside is seemingly falling apart. But here you can find your people, and the camaraderie of that tribe pulling for you to succeed. Workouts at 5 AM don’t seem nearly as early when surrounded by your tribe.

There’s something indescribable and special about a group of people that suffer and sweat together. 

Why a CrossFit tribe, or any tribe, is important

  • Life will have its difficult times. You will fail. You will make mistakes. A tribe can help support you in these tough times.
  • There will be things that you don’t want to do (but you need to do). You’re going to need people to believe in and push you, more than you are capable of at those moments.
  • The tribe are people that care about what you have to say. Surround yourself with people you love. It makes life a little less daunting.

You need a tribe, go find yours.

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Growth: How To Embrace Discomfort

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Starting anything new is exciting. Stepping out of our comfort zone, the sense of adventure, not knowing what lies ahead. However it is also difficult to do. Yes, our routine is a safe and familiar place to be. It provides such solace that oftentimes people won’t give it up, even if deep down they hate it. As they say, better the devil you know than the devil you don’t. But, maybe there’s something to be said about learning to embrace discomfort.

Making the decision to be healthier is fun and it’s exciting. It can be a little intimidating, and there is a good chance you will feel very uncomfortable at first. We all know excessive poor eating habits and too little physical exercise isn’t good for us. Everyone knows drinking 5 pops a day and eating foods loaded with salt, bad fats, or sugars is unhealthy. But that’s our comfort area, we have conditioned ourselves. If you can attach to something, you can detach. Growth requires some sacrifice, and this may mean we need to embrace the discomfort that comes along with this.

Making sacrifices for the sake of change

For generations our comfort zone served humans well. It protected us, it still does. Our comfort zone is our safe zone. But growth is more than safety. To change and grow you have to sacrifice. Sacrifice: that’s the cost of admission. And everyone who starts down the path of growth has to pay admission. 

The most challenging sacrifice is giving up who we are for who we can become. What will friends/family think of me? What if I fail, or look stupid? How will I survive without my (insert your own security blanket here)? How much of an inconvenience will this be to my daily life? 

These and more are all questions that probably run through our minds when debating that initial step into discomfort. From personal experience I can tell you when I started Buffalo Nickel CrossFit I asked myself these questions. When I left my full time job I asked myself these questions again. And probably a million times in between the two experiences. I’m sure I will ask myself these questions a million times more before I leave this life.

Learn to celebrate and embrace discomfort

My advice: stop stepping into discomfort and start leaping into it. Embrace discomfort with open arms. Yes, it’s scary. You might get hurt, embarrassed, you might fail, you might lose “friends”. A lot can happen. But more than likely you will survive and prosper. Also, I promise you two things:

  1. You will have to pay the sacrifice admission.
  2. You will learn that comfort zone you loved so much was actually holding you back from being happy with your life.

So whether or not you have taken that leap or you are still trying to jump over that imaginary comfort zone line just know you can make it. 

You will be uncomfortable for awhile, everyone is. We have all been that new person stepping into the box for the first time. We have all felt like idiots trying to learn the snatch. We have all fallen during a box jump. But everyone in that box has also stayed with it. They have made the choice to grind it out, they have made the choice to grow.  

Like Albert Einstein said, I must be willing to give up what I am in order to become what I will be.

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